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Guided by Truth as my North Star, I walk the Tantric path as an embodied exploration of love, consciousness, and life-force energy. Through my work, I create temple spaces and collective & private fields where the full spectrum of human experience is welcome - and whatever arises becomes an invitation into deeper intimacy with self, others, and life. Rooted in devotional spiritual practice and a background in science and corporate business, I weave together structure and surrender, eros and grounded presence, mysticism and clarity. My facilitation draws from many years of experience in embodiment, conscious intimacy, and relational practices. I am trauma-informed and have trained with organizations such as the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality (Layla Martin), the International School of Temple Arts (ISTA), HeartIQ, LiveTantra, and Awaken As Love, where I’m also part of faculty. 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Get out of your head, into your body; Raise your self-love and feel worthy & deserving; Liberate from limiting patterns and heal your wounding; Tap into your (sexual) life force energy; Align mind, body & soul to live your true authentic self; Feel confident & empowered to make love with life! https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/618e8c6b29b7ed76f7669085/19ee2504-6e56-491e-8bc0-4f1db74288a8/WhatsApp+Image+2024-11-09+at+17.40.10+%281%29.jpeg Home - Couple Coaching A deep transformational journey to get the love, sex & connection you want. Both of you! 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